Women of today- Man with looks or man with money?

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   billzbposted 11 years ago

   - Man with looks or man with money?
   obviously man with money is all it matters for girls of today!
   what you say?

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      ThoughtSandwichesposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Yikes!  I hope the ladies work out a third option for guys like me!  That being said I believe that answere probably depends on the woman you are asking.

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         billzbposted 11 years agoin reply to this

         yup , about 80% of the hot chicks make out with rich nerds ! *Sigh*

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      wordscribe43posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I say those are some pretty shallow girls you've been running across!  Yikes...

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      deblippposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      A person with a rewarding job is a person who is competent in the world, and I admire competence. Inherited wealth tends to create a spoiled brat, but a person with money he earned is a person who is hard-working and capable.
      
      So, money.

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      kimberlyslyricsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$ 

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      lockgirlposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Looks I don't care that much about, Money I don't need anyone to support me. I like a man with a great personality, looks and money really don't matter

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         andycoolposted 11 years agoin reply to this

         What according to you are the ingredients of a great personality?

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   Mighty Momposted 11 years ago

   I'm a woman of today and my answer is neither.
   I go for compatibility, sense of humor, and honor.
   No wonder I'm broke

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      logic,commonsenseposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Mighty Mom, if you are broke how are you going to pay your "fair share"?
      Better start looking for one of those rich Republican donors!

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      jojo577posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      hey mighty mom I did the same and you r right I am broke and disheartened too.Did you really become a mom i see no chance!

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   princess gposted 11 years ago

   I choose looks AND money. Is that an option?

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      billzbposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      lol dats kinda rare,
      rich and gud lookin men end up with ugly women

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   Extinct Soulposted 11 years ago

   sounds like the options were the same..they can both give you a headache..
   
   ain't there any other options? or just add some free stuffs on the options like
   man with money (old)
   man with looks (blind)
   
   
   (billzd, welcome to hubpages, carefull this time, ok? )

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   Lisa HWposted 11 years ago

   Preference 1:  Kind and intelligent.
   Preference 2:  Kind and at least not an ignorant "moron"
   
   
   Looks and/or money would be nice extras, but neither alone cuts it as far as I'm concerned.  Looks-wise, I'd just want it to be someone who I found attractive (regardless of looks).  Money-wise, I'm not necessarily impressed by someone else's money.

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   kmackey32posted 11 years ago

   How about neithor.... When I found my man, I was not interested in him based on his looks nor did I care how much money he made. It was his personality after nagn me for a week...

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      kmackey32posted 11 years agoin reply to this

      P.S. Although how good he was in the bedroom made me keep comming back for more....

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         Lisa HWposted 11 years agoin reply to this

         ..but how about really, really, gross-ugly and dirt poor - but good in the bedroom????   

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   Fiction Tellerposted 11 years ago

   In order of importance...
   
   Survival skills (must be able to survive economic disaster)
   
   Same general world outlook ("Hey, that's stupid!" "Damn, it sure is!")
   
   Same general kid-raising philosophy ("He's reached the rebellious stage - finally!"  "I know, isn't it great?")
   
   Trustworthiness ("Can you keep a secret?" "No."  "Okay, thanks for your honesty.")
   
   Consistency (tends to do A after doing B - makes home life so much more comfortable)
   
   Isn't boring (except about guy things - that's okay)
   
   Willing to change (in terms of adapting to changing circumstances, not in terms of being willingly molded like clay)
   
   etc
   etc
   
   Doesn't leak money
   
   Doesn't hoard money
   
   Doesn't look like a slug (very much don't like that slimy coating)

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      Ivorwenposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      I like your list!

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   klarawieckposted 11 years ago

   I think it's harder now to find men that are honest and smart, so if a woman is to settle for what's available, she might as well look for one that at least has something to offer - money!

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      Lisa HWposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      and one who doesn't "pass out" (sleep) on couches and in chairs.  If there's one thing that irks the heck out of me, it's having someone sleep on couches and in chairs.  I wouldn't care if he was great looking and had all the money in the world.  If he passes out on the couch or when sitting at the table - he's out.     

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         klarawieckposted 11 years agoin reply to this

         you just eliminated half of the male population!

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            Lisa HWposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            I didn't know it was a full half     but - boy - I know it's common among them.   I don't know...   "Certain people" ought to go to bed if they're tired or else figure out how unappealing it is for everyone else to have to be looking at a carcass on the couch - or worse, The Nodded-Off Noggin at the dining room table.   

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            drej2522posted 11 years agoin reply to this

            haha...but the couch is soooo comfortable! Geez!
            
            I mean, what? Did I just incriminate myself? hrmmm

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      logic,commonsenseposted 11 years agoin reply to this

      Klara, I'm shocked!  There are all kinds of smart, honest guys right here on HP!   And I'm guessing there are more than just a few that would offer you money!

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         klarawieckposted 11 years agoin reply to this

         Don't be shocked, logic. That's the problem... the good honest men are working on their hubs instead of being out there, trying to meet women.

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            Jonathan Jancoposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            Or we're out there working on getting one of those job thingies and dont have time to write hubs, post on the forums or meet women.

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               klarawieckposted 11 years agoin reply to this

               You're excused, Jonathan! Thanks for your birthday wishes.

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                  Jonathan Jancoposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  Oh sure not a problem. Just another notch on the old coffin post, right?
                  But to stay on subject, I find it to be somewhat of a curse that I'm good looking. Most women assume I'm a womanizer and the rest seem to assume I have very little else to offer. Of course, most women tell me I'm too picky. I only want a mature comitment-oriented woman with looks and brains and talent and the sexdrive of a Klingon. I really dont think that constitutes being 'picky'.

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                     klarawieckposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                     not picky at all! You know what you want. Back in the day when I was 'looking' I didn't really know what I wanted, so I went with what felt right. I knew how to differentiate between a strong attraction and actual compatibility, and I met a few men whom I felt a very strong attraction but I knew it wouldn't last a month. I picked the right man for me, but until that moment I kept all my options open. You just never know who the right person is.

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            Eaglekiwiposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            And the good looking ones are either gay or married
            (Ducks for cover)

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               Jonathan Jancoposted 11 years agoin reply to this

               not gay, not married and not gettin any
               so howbout a new theory?

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                  klarawieckposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  NEW THEORY  -
                  
                  
                  When you focus too much on what you don't want, you might miss all the good opportunities that pass you by.

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                     Jonathan Jancoposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                     Well I dont want to be paralyzed by fear and doubt, but I think its those two things that have caused the oppurtunities to pass, as opposed to my not wanting them.

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                  Eaglekiwiposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                  (j/k)
                  
                  Actually the method that seems to come up tops is this:
                  
                  Just enjoy doing 'other stuff', ie working,hobbies,gym(jogging a good one) socialising with the intent to enjoy yourself and not to 'look' for someone, and before ya know it will happen.
                  
                  Often the most attractive people are the ones who are 'not looking'
                  
                  Dont ever sell ya'self short either (not saying you do)
                  You are a good looking guy ,smart ,coupled with a delightful personality.

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                     Jonathan Jancoposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                     It's very difficult for a man of my gender to 'not look'. Which is why I'm convinced that the woman I marry will win my heart by breaking into my house while I'm asleep.

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                        Eaglekiwiposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                        
                        
                        Be careful what you wish for then.

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                           Jonathan Jancoposted 11 years agoin reply to this

                           I can picture her shaking the lockpick in her hand screaming, "NOW I bet you wont be ignoring me!"
                           
                           That's my kinda woman: audacious, tenacious, determined.

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         Eaglekiwiposted 11 years agoin reply to this

         Well smart maybe ,but rich no ,lol ,least not off Adsense
         
         
         I guess too that beauty is in the eye of the beholder,because Ive seen some odd looking couples in real life. But then again,Im odd looking so my hubby must be the cute one...
         
         1} A guy with good work ethics
         2) A good conversationlist,( that extends past sports,the best beer,and whats for dinner?)
         
         3) Has integrity.
         
         
         The rest I can teach him

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            klarawieckposted 11 years agoin reply to this

            LOL
            
            I like people who are genuine. The biggest turn off for me is when a man pretends to be something he's not... either acting cool to try to impress me or his friends, or hiding who he truly is to not get hurt. I like my man to be simple and easy to read. Looks are not that important and money is not as important as much as the intention and effort to help keep a financial stability.

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   billzbposted 11 years ago

   Some people care only about their reputation alot and only wishes to be seen with someone who's vigourously attractive. They are cruel-hearted and greedy, and most of them don't even realise it yet.
   
   Repuation comes before money, because what you have defines what you are as a person. They don't realise, that having a well-built man or a georgous busty woman is not as wealthy as having someone who's accually there for you and loves you more than they love themselves.
   
   I'm not an assuming person often, and it does scare me sometimes, if girls care about money and repuation more than love. We live in a shallow world, but there are some women out who do prefer to sale them off to ugly old millionaires for anything.

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    schoolgirlforrealposted 11 years ago

    It would be nice to be attracted to someone
    money is not #1
    all the other stuff kindness honesty understanding are good
    but what about men? Most of them want a gorgeous smart wealthy woman.

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       billzbposted 11 years agoin reply to this

       Naah !! MEN just go for the looks , they dont care about money.
       looks in a women is all they need

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          Disturbiaposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          LOL, men do care about money.  I know because I have lots of it and I married at least one or two "gentlemen" who spent it like they just won the lottery and only had six months left to live. 
          
          I'm an attractive woman, I have my own business, I'm well educated, I take good care of myself so I'm in great shape and look many years younger than my age, but guys always seem to get just a little bit more interested in me after one of my friends drops the "Money" bomb.  I am never sure if it's me that attracts them or my bank account.

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          drej2522posted 11 years agoin reply to this

          hey now...a good personality and an equally great sense of humor go a long way!!

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             schoolgirlforrealposted 11 years agoin reply to this

             yeah I always thought kindness was important as to being a biatch

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          schoolgirlforrealposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          looks #1, (in women), smarts #2, money #3

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    Disturbiaposted 11 years ago

    I say I've already had the man with the money, and the men with the looks, both have their positives and negatives... I go for the guy with the interesting mind and personality now.  Men with money can be controlling and pretty boys can be too much into themselves and not enough into you.  I'll take a man who is interesting, entertaining, and knows how to have a good time. I don't care how fat his wallet is or what he looks like.

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    Stacie Lposted 11 years ago

    a geek..a man with a brain is extremely attractive..and if he's also good looking that doesn't hurt either!

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    pajamazzonposted 11 years ago

    Why can't i have both?

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    Eaglekiwiposted 11 years ago

    

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       Jonathan Jancoposted 11 years agoin reply to this

       Hmm, could u turn her into a blonde and make her a little taller?

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          schoolgirlforrealposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          No, this is way better. blondes are boring though I am one LOL

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          Eaglekiwiposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Actually she is a natural blonde ,but brunette for the show
          
          If ya want her taller ,just zoom in and upsize

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    mega1posted 11 years ago

    I think most men want a woman who will do all the work in the relationship - you know, prod them to remember special days and demand attention - so they can just go along with her.  Those men are so uninteresting and self-centered and so I know I don't want one of those.  Really, I don't want any of them, I can enjoy them for who and what they are but I don't want to "have" any of them!  wow!  I never knew that about myself before now! 
    
    however, if a good looking man with money came along and demanded my attention I would give it willingly and immediately forsake all others!

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       schoolgirlforrealposted 11 years agoin reply to this

       sounds good to me!

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       Eaglekiwiposted 11 years agoin reply to this

       mega ,I think many guys are like that- they kinda want an extension of mommy, without the rules.
       
       lol@ rich men.

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    billzbposted 11 years ago

    
    
    Italian model Elisabetta Gregoraci and her husband, Flavio Briatore (yes, he's a gazillionaire).

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       mega1posted 11 years agoin reply to this

       he looks like a real "project"!

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       Home Girlposted 11 years agoin reply to this

       She looks kinda bored... I wonder why?

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          andycoolposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Because after marriage she realized what a big mistake she committed... money can't buy "orgasm"!

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    Chaotic Chicaposted 11 years ago

    This question is a tad unfair.
    
    Choosing looks over money may make your ego happy for a while but if all he has to offer is good looks then it won't be long before you discover that isn't enough.
    
    Choosing money over looks may mean that you are financially stable but that also does not equate to happiness.  What difference does it make if you have all the things money can buy if you aren't attracted to your spouse? 
    
    Marriage should be a balance of attraction and stablility so that there is no room for resentment to grow.

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    kerrygposted 11 years ago

    Both, ideally.
    
    But honestly, neither one is even in my top five. Intelligence, responsibility, ambition, good moral character, compatible interests, compatible personality, sexual compatibility, etc. are all much more important to me.

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    billzbposted 11 years ago

    
    
    here's another example
    Donald Trump with his sexy wife

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       Jonathan Jancoposted 11 years agoin reply to this

       Sexy is merely an opinion. From my pov, she looks like a lizard.

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    Home Girlposted 11 years ago

    If you have everything yourself why do you need a man?

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       kimberlyslyricsposted 11 years agoin reply to this

       I love you 

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       mega1posted 11 years agoin reply to this

       exactly!  but its not really about needs so much as what you LIKE!  and that's another, much deeper, kettle of fish. 

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    freecampingaussieposted 11 years ago

    I would never want to be with a guy just because he is rich . He could be a very boring stuck up snob & I would hate that .
    Some very good looking guys are too full of themselves so I prefer a down to earth average guy .
    
    
    I love my husband who has a great sense of humor , is loving, caring a great cook ,compatable in the bedroom !! enjoys the activities like snorkeling with me , we are traveling Australia with a caravan & he certainly is not rich.
    He is good looking as far as I am concerrned
    
    
    

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       billzbposted 11 years agoin reply to this

       aww thats sweet !

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          Home Girlposted 11 years agoin reply to this

          Some women just know where to dig!

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    emjwafaposted 11 years ago

    i dont really look for good looking man, he is just a pain in chest, and rich man also makes him feel he is superior than me.. i want someone who has job, i dont care if i even get paid more than he is, as long as he loves me and loyal to me... and of course i am attracted to him.. that basically i know well fall for a deep love..... :-)

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