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A Relationship Expert (Guru) offers solutions for Relationship Problems after analyzing them.
A Relationship Expert (Guru) offers solutions for Relationship Problems after analyzing them.

Being a Relationship Expert by offering Solutions to Problems

“I am your Relationship Expert and I have answers to all your problems” – I don’t think I have advertised or said anything of that sort. With the number of mails I receive everyday asking for advice on relationship issues, I guess I need to make myself clear. It is true that from my school and college days I always had friends who consulted me about their problems and trusted that I will have a solution to their problems. Some of the qualities which makes my friends and acquaintances trust me with their problems could be :-

  • I am a good Listener: I always have a patient ear for friends and allow them to share their problems with me without interrupting them and asking questions only after hearing it all.
  • I do not judge without a proper analysis: I like to hear both sides of the story and analyze the pros and cons of the problem. Even when I advise I try to present it nicely without hurting them.
  • Wider network of Friends: With a wide network of friends or acquaintances I always had all type of friends and have seen others experiencing or facing different types of problems and solving them or making things worse which have automatically equipped me with solutions to the problems as well.

My belief is that when you have a problem the first place to look for an answer is within yourself. Also if anyone is behaving in a particular manner it is mostly because you have given the reason for them to behave that way. I am a firm believer of ‘what you give is what you get’. I am perfectly alright with my close friends coming with their problems to me. But now after seeing some of my Articles I even have complete strangers sending me mails asking for free advice for their problems. I even had friends in twitter asking me if I am a relationship expert as I tweet a lot on relationships. I neither have the time nor have the patience to sit and answer such mails. The only relationship advice I am offering are through my hubs or Dating Blog.

So far I have written over 200 Articles on Relationships alone and have more to come. In HubPages alone I have over 75 Articles on the subject. Though I have always been good at offering relationship advice that was not a topic I have written till a few months ago. Talking on my Articles on Relationships, I wrote my first article on relationship during the first Hub Challenge which was a huge hit. It motivated me to write more on the topic. The reason why I tried writing on something which I have not written earlier was because I was fed up of hearing that ‘I have seen your articles and Blogs. You write on Hindu Mantras and Gemstones.’ I felt the need to prove that I can write about any topic and not just gemstones or Hindu religion. I do not regret venturing into the Gender and Relationships niche. Now that I have quite a lot of hubs on relationships, it makes sense to have a master hub for all my articles on Relationships. If you are looking for answers to your problems, you may find it here.

Articles on Marriage and Love Relationships

No relationship is without problems. My friend informs me that it is the petty fights and making up which makes her love life interesting. But when problems of serious nature like marital infidelity and relationship boredom happens it can ruin a relationship. One way of tackling relationship problems is by keeping the communication open at all times. Sometimes relationships need enriching and rebuilding. By creating a healthy relationship, couples can overcome misunderstandings and resolve conflicts. I have many articles on relationship problems and tips on dealing with them.

One of the major problems affecting relationships is infidelity. Have you wondered why men cheat (or why women cheat) on their relationships? While the main reasons for male infidelity could be physical, the reasons for female infidelity could be more of emotional. While some may find it possible to digest cheating with the opposite sex, it may be an insult to their ego when they find that their partner was having a same sex relationship. Check out my article on How to know if your man is cheating on you with another man.

Some mistakes cannot be forgiven. And sometimes, despite of best efforts to salvage the relationship they end often leaving scars which last for a long time. Is it really worth staying in an unhappy marriage? How to know if a Marriage is in trouble? Why do people stay in sexless marriages? What are some reasons which prompt men and women to opt for Divorce? What are some reasons for dumping a Boyfriend or Girlfriend? How to know if you are going to get dumped? Why should you not take your ex back? Check out the links for answer to these questions.

Marriage is a commitment. Along with Marriage comes responsibility and problems too. Many Men and women get married thinking that life is going to be a bed of roses for them only to be disappointed later. It is like a two way street and it takes the efforts of both partners to make it work and run smoothly. When problems arise the couples should aim at solving them immediately. Unfortunately even those who have taken their time to get married do not spare much time to mend the relationship when problems arise. Most couples choose the easy way out by getting a divorce or by cheating on the spouse or partner.

If you are looking for a way to put some passion back into your relationship, I highly recommend you to read “The Relationship Problem Solver” by Kelly E. Johnson which offers practical solutions to the most intricate problems in everyone's relationships. This is a must read for every couples.

Articles on Romance and Dating

With Romance and dating also comes risks, compromises and attempts to make the partner happy. If your dream girl is meeting you for a date, you would want her to make sure that she has a memorable time with you. You would want to make her feel special. Whether it is a first date or a special day (Valentine’s Day, birthday, anniversary or the day you wish to propose to her), you will have to be well prepared if you want to make a good impression.

What does it take to impress your girl on a date? Given below are some of my articles on romance and dating.

Articles on Friendships and Work

Friendships and working relationships are an integral part of human existence. Manners and Etiquette's play an important part in maintaining such relationships. Given below are some of my Articles on friendships and work.


Articles offering Parenting Advice

No one can replace the parent’s role in the life of her children. The outlook that the child will form towards life depends a lot on the parents. His attitude, views, goals, perspective on life etc depend to a larger extent on what he learned from parents. So good parenting is very vital for a child’s life. Similarly, when it comes to relationships maintaining a relationship is very important.

Two of the best books on Parenting Advice I would like to recommend are Mending the Broken Bond: The 90-Day Answer to Repairing Your Relationship with Your Child by Bestselling author Dr. Frank Lawlis and Mending Fences Healing Hearts: The Top 10 Keys to a Better Relationship with Your Adult Children by Dr Chuck Lynch.

Given below are some hubs offering tips on Parenting right.

Guest Bloggers on Relationship Topics

Are you a Blogger looking for some link juice on the Dating and Relationships niche? If so, feel free to join my 50+ Guest Bloggers on my Blog on Relationships and Dating.

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Comments 24 comments

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DeBorrah K. Ogans 7 years ago

Animika S

This is a Great hub!

You are so right when there is a problem "the first place to look for an answer is within."

The information you have shared will be quite helpful to those seeking to improve or desire a good relationship.

Thank you for sharing

Blessings


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CEN7777 7 years ago

thanks for the preference guru jee


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cindyvine 7 years ago from Kyiv, Ukraine

Anamika and Connie, as soon as I have my internet connected at home, will make a new website. But, this is Africa and things sometimes take a little time...


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Anamika S 7 years ago from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India Author

arjunjain1989,cgull8m and ruperi : Thanks for the visit and encouragement.


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ruperi 7 years ago from India

WHAT A WORK YOU DO?? I HAVE TO TAKE INSPIRATION FROM YOU!


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cgull8m 7 years ago from North Carolina

Keep up the good work. There will be critics in anything we do, but we have to keep doing things as long as it makes you and others happy. Cheers.


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arunjain1989 7 years ago from mumbai

You really are true relationship guru.I will suggest all my friends to read this hub because a lot of them going through rough patches in relationship and i guess this would help.And yea thumbs up for this page.i have become your fan.


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Anamika S 7 years ago from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India Author

Princessa : Yes, I do ask them to first analyze their own behavior before pointing fingers and come up with answers. Thanks for the visit.

CEN7777 : Mahesh, I am flattered that you called me Guru first. So you always have that preference.


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CEN7777 7 years ago

That's Great Anamika, Now so many peoples considering you as guru. Kiya baat hai!


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Princessa 7 years ago from France

I think you are an expert if the first advice that you give is to find an answer within yourself.

I cannot take seriously those people who advice and tell you what to do. I think that the most sensible thing to do is to help the person see his/her problem and try to let him or her find the answer.


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Connie Smith 7 years ago from Tampa Bay, Florida

I would like to be involved in that, Cindy.


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Anamika S 7 years ago from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India Author

Thanks for the support finsofts.


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finsofts 7 years ago from India

You are doing a great job, rely appreciable..

Thanks for your help for the community


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Anamika S 7 years ago from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India Author

564626 : Thanks for your suggestion.

cindyvine : That's a good idea. Let me know when you do so.


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cindyvine 7 years ago from Kyiv, Ukraine

Hey Anamika, I am thinking of starting a website where people can post problems which we answer. Would you be interested in joining in?


564626 7 years ago

Yahoo answers is filled with tons of....relationship questions.. they need true help.


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Anamika S 7 years ago from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India Author

Thanks a lot Connie for your visit and encouragement.


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Connie Smith 7 years ago from Tampa Bay, Florida

By writing about relationships, you have obviously impressed many people that you have insight into relationships. It is a big compliment that people write you for this. It means that your writing is making a difference to some people and that they trust you.


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Anamika S 7 years ago from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India Author

JonTutor : I am the eldest in my family and have a younger brother. I think I will pass your Offer. Thanks for asking anyway.

John Chancellor : Thanks for the vote of confidence. It is very true that one need not know all about relationships or have to experience problems to give proper advice. Yes, I try to be honest and firm too without making the person miserable than he or she already is. I feel great when close friends come with me for help. I also feel great when things work out for them. But when someone whom i know nothing about comes for a free solution to their problems sometimes i feel annoyed because i value my time and prefer to put better use of it. I will have a look at the site you mentioned.

dohn121 : You are right. Thanks for the nice comments.


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dohn121 7 years ago from Hudson Valley, New York

Write from your heart, Animika. The rest will follow. You shouldn't feel as if you're regulated to write any one thing or several other things. Keep up the good work!


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John Chancellor 7 years ago from Tennessee

I think you have more insight than you give yourself credit for. Being able to see things objectively gives you a real valuable vantage point. Remember, you don't need to know everything about relationships, just more than the person seeking help.

The only thing that concerns me is you say you try to be gentle with everyone, trying not to hurt anyone. I have found that sometimes it is necessary to be firm, even brutally honest. My worst results is when I try to be too gentle with people.

You seem to have a gift ... so I suggest you continue to use it wisely.

If you enjoy helping people, you might sign up as an expert at allexperts.com


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JonTutor 7 years ago from USA

Were you the big sister in family?.... Do you wanna be my counsellor.


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Anamika S 7 years ago from Mumbai - Maharashtra, India Author

Thanks for the encouragement judydianne.


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judydianne 7 years ago from Palm Harbor, FL

You seem to have good insight into relationships. That is why people are asking you for advice. Good job!

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