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Tough To Admit: How many lovers have you had?

  1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
    Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years ago

    Are you afraid to comment? I wouldn't blame any married person if they didn't comment. I'm married 32 years, so I stopped adding when young. Being a singer, it was difficult to keep track.

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      Poppa Bluesposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Today or all together?

      1. N. Ramius profile image67
        N. Ramiusposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        0. Wow that was easy.

      2. Harvey Stelman profile image60
        Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Poppa,

        Have to ask this because of something said on a Forum. I always thought you were a man because of your name. Someone made reference to you being a woman. so I'm confused. If your pic is you, I could put you over 1,000. At least those that have tried.

        I'm talking all together.

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          Poppa Bluesposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          I am a man! How many women are called Poppa?

          1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
            Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Poppa,

            Someone on a Forum said you were a woman.

            1. starme77 profile image80
              starme77posted 7 years agoin reply to this

              He's a Priest lol lol

    2. donotfear profile image88
      donotfearposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Harvey, you seem quite obsessed with this type post lately. What's going on with you?

      1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
        Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        DNF,

        I'm living in the past, over 60 and handicapped. It seemed like fun topics. Youth isn't wasted on the young, it should just continue. Lately many new people in my life have wanted to hear my old stories. I found out I have more than most.

        I didn't ask; how many in one day.

        My mind is still overactive, marriage has quelled the situation. Thinking about all the women in my past (that I remember) is fun.

        After I publish my first book (coming soon) the follow-up has a tory that is really about me.  You can see a video on youtub www.eyesofemerald.com, it's just talking about how the book got written and more.

        1. donotfear profile image88
          donotfearposted 7 years agoin reply to this


          Well that's an answer worth pondering! I understand. Our mind whirls with lost memories as we get older. I've been noticing the same thing.

        2. starme77 profile image80
          starme77posted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Hey  Harvey How many lovers you had? And ya gotta add your married years too lol

    3. pisean282311 profile image60
      pisean282311posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      lovers only 1 , affairs 3...

    4. qwark profile image59
      qwarkposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Can we include our right or left hands?...or both?...:-)

    5. qwark profile image59
      qwarkposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Wait! Wait!
      Let me count the bedpost notches!
      Give me a few minutes ok?

      1. blondepoet profile image74
        blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Golly gosh good to see some-one else has trouble adding up too.

        1. qwark profile image59
          qwarkposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          hahahaha....:-)

          My name is...BOND!.....JAMES BOND!

          1. blondepoet profile image74
            blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            I reckon I need to come over your house Mr Bond and we can work it out with a pencil together smile :)before we board the Moon-raker.
            I will bring a 48 page note-book ROFL!!!!
            http://i90.photobucket.com/albums/k276/sukan4Dhyip/James%20Bond%20Girls/james_bond_007_bond_girls_05.jpg

            1. qwark profile image59
              qwarkposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              Ok, you bring your 48 page notebook, I have mine...but wait, I have to get my reading glasses......:-)

              1. blondepoet profile image74
                blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                Hahaha no worries I got to find my compass to get to your house.

            2. qwark profile image59
              qwarkposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              DAMNED PAPARAZZI!!!
              HOW THE HELL DID THEY GET OUR PIC
              (you were good tho baby!!!...:-))
              THEY EVEN GOT MY WOODY BEHIND THAT TREE!
              I don't get no respect!!!! :-(
              Where's my Mazzerati when I need it?

              1. blondepoet profile image74
                blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                You brought out the tiger in me and that woody just got out of hand LMAO. Roar!!!!!!!!!!!!

                http://i206.photobucket.com/albums/bb268/whitelighter84/eltigre.jpg

                1. qwark profile image59
                  qwarkposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                  WHAT A WOMAN!
                  BABY, YOU TOOK IT ALL!
                  IF I CAN GET "IT" ABOARD MY FLIGHT, we'll meet in London and do it again!...yehhhhhhh!!!   :-)

                  1. blondepoet profile image74
                    blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                    Mum mum mum mah
                    Mum mum mum mah
                    Mum mum mum mah
                    Mum mum mum mah
                    Mum mum mum mah

                    Oh, oh, oh
                    I'll get him hot, show him what I got,
                    Oh, oh, oh
                    I'll get him hot, show him what I got.

                    (Til London woo hoo)

                    http://i633.photobucket.com/albums/uu51/mariaalejandra_2009/photo3.jpg

  2. Greek One profile image74
    Greek Oneposted 7 years ago

    are you counting the ones where money was exchanged?

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Greek,

      I hope you never paid for it, I'm not counting dinner.

      1. starme77 profile image80
        starme77posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        lol lol lol That's a good one smile

  3. myownworld profile image80
    myownworldposted 7 years ago

    Harvey, don't mind, but I'm getting confused between the two threads here... mind games I call it! yikes

    ok. I'll confess but please stop!

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      MOW,

      You want me to stop, but you comment. Now I'm confused.

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    Kenrick Chatmanposted 7 years ago

    Several if you include friends with benefits.

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Ken,

      I'll bet you increase that number quickly.

  5. habee profile image95
    habeeposted 7 years ago

    does that include one-night stands??

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      habee,

      As long as you didn't get paid, no pros allowed. Ha!

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    Home Girlposted 7 years ago

    does that include your husband?

    1. Cagsil profile image60
      Cagsilposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      roll

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Home,

      Ask him! Of course it does.

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    Justine76posted 7 years ago

    7

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Justine 76,

      Honesty from a lady, that's great. Watch for it to get lower if you aree married. Men get higher, and women get lower with age. Very few are totaally honest.

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        Justine76posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        how would it get lower? is it possable to undo what you've done?
        Im 100 percent honest.

  8. Cagsil profile image60
    Cagsilposted 7 years ago

    How many lovers have you had? 15.

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Cag,

      Are you asking me? I said earlier that I sang in clubs, girl's go crazy when they see someone on stage. If I tell you over 200; would you believe me?

      1. starme77 profile image80
        starme77posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        ewwwww if thats true then you should be tested regularly for hiv

      2. Cagsil profile image60
        Cagsilposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Hey Harvey, I typed in the question you asked and then answered it. I wasn't asking you. I wasn't interested, because that is your business and what you do with your life in that aspect, has not effect/affect on my life. hmm

  9. mega1 profile image80
    mega1posted 7 years ago

    I have no idea why Harvey wants to know this about any of us  - I don't believe in bragging or being coy or anything so I'll just say -  Hey!  none of your business!

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      Justine76posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      smile  peep!

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      mega,

      Not bragging, just doing this for fun. It looks like many have something to say, you have commented twice.

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      Ghost32posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Could be...Harvey, have you maybe taken on a secret agent job for the Census?  You know, getting us all to answer those questions in this obviously private format that we wouldn't give the bureaucratic temp worker who shows up at the door? lol

    4. starme77 profile image80
      starme77posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Exactly smile

  10. Ivorwen profile image74
    Ivorwenposted 7 years ago

    Not tough to admit, Harvey.  Just one.

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Ivor,

      If that was the one, great!

  11. yoshi97 profile image72
    yoshi97posted 7 years ago

    Do fantasies count? smile

    1. Rafini profile image89
      Rafiniposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      OMG - that would put me in the 1000's!!!   lol lol lol

    2. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      yoshi,

      Most of us would be in the hundred's or thousand's.

  12. kerryg profile image90
    kerrygposted 7 years ago

    Only my husband.

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      kerr,

      Then that's great!

  13. luvpassion profile image60
    luvpassionposted 7 years ago

    I'm just wondering if Mr Ahmed sock-puppet is going to respond to one of these threads?

    Teri

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      luv,

      WHO?

  14. prettydarkhorse profile image65
    prettydarkhorseposted 7 years ago

    I had three, they all cheated on me hehehehe!

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      pretty,

      Are you looking to find out if others would cheat on you also? Belated April Fools.

    2. yoshi97 profile image72
      yoshi97posted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Then they all lost out on a terrific gal. wink

    3. She-rah profile image78
      She-rahposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Oh, so sorry, been down that road! Hand in there girl, there are good men! Hard to find!

  15. tantrum profile image60
    tantrumposted 7 years ago

    I had enough.

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Me too!

      1. Mark Knowles profile image61
        Mark Knowlesposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Well? How many? big_smile

        1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
          Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Mark,

          Are you talkin ta me?

          1. Mark Knowles profile image61
            Mark Knowlesposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Yes. You started this an I do not see a number.

            How is that trip down memory lane going? big_smile

            1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
              Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              Mark,

              You probably won't believe me when I say I stopped when I got married  at 28. The number you are searching for is over 200. When you have a night club act it's not difficult.

              I've seen the ugliest guys in the world take on three good looking girls in a night. I was always a lead singer, you can only imagine.

              I never understood why the girl's would just line-up and wait their turn.  It is rare that ladies admit to doing this in their past, but it wasn't one girl doing it all.

              I've had girl's that wouldn't go on a date with me, beg to go home with me after my act.

              I wasn't even a headliner. I was booked as the before act for Elton John and Jethro Tull individually. Girl's even wanted Slton knowing he's gay. Of course that line had guys also.

              Seeing one of the girl's on campus days after was fun. Most would say; she must have looked like me. Of course some wanted another shot, but being backstage was always important.

  16. Hokey profile image60
    Hokeyposted 7 years ago

    38

    1. Mark Knowles profile image61
      Mark Knowlesposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      That all? What are you - gay? Oh - wait a minute.

      cue evangelists.......

      1. Beth100 profile image77
        Beth100posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        You bad Mark!  lol  lol

        1. Mark Knowles profile image61
          Mark Knowlesposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          Yeah - I know - that is why I have Hokey beat. wink

          Still waiting on an answer from Harvey though. Unless he  forgot.......... Been a while?  big_smile

          1. Uninvited Writer profile image83
            Uninvited Writerposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            I think he said 50...

            I always want to wash my hands every time I open this thread.

            1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
              Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              Uni,

              I'm unusual for a guy, sometimes I give a lower number.

          2. Beth100 profile image77
            Beth100posted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Evasiveness is practiced by  many.  Including (and you can fill in the blanks Mark!)  lol

    2. prettydarkhorse profile image65
      prettydarkhorseposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      maybe youre a HUNK like Wolverine -- HUGH or Daniel Day Lewis!

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    Ghost32posted 7 years ago

    Hmm...how many lovers....

    Uh, one question:

    Humans only?  big_smile

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Ghost,

      Since Denno isn't here, you can include sheep.

  18. bojanglesk8 profile image61
    bojanglesk8posted 7 years ago

    3242334322.

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      boj,

      Congrat's, you and Wilt Chamberlain could have been friends.

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    Justine76posted 7 years ago

    this is just getting wierd....

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Jus,

      I did this for fun but things have gone down, no pun intended.

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        Justine76posted 7 years agoin reply to this

        haha, but its funny anyway.  smile

  20. brethodge profile image40
    brethodgeposted 7 years ago

    I had 10 in scool time.. 15 in college and still dnt know how much.. hahaha.. have to recall.. tongue

  21. Niteriter profile image79
    Niteriterposted 7 years ago

    I don't remember much from years gone by but the word "husband" makes me want to jump up and run.

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Nit,

      It can be wonderful!

  22. theirishobserver. profile image60
    theirishobserver.posted 7 years ago

    Probably around 500 - but to be honest it could be more - there were nights when I wondered if I had simply been dreaming or had I actually been with more than one - then I find a tell tale sign - like panties in my car - or a women in my bed smile

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Irish,

      If you can't rember it; what good is it?

  23. Niteriter profile image79
    Niteriterposted 7 years ago

    I'm empathetic re the dreaming bit.

    1. Harvey Stelman profile image60
      Harvey Stelmanposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Nit,

      If we count dreams, I'm in the thousands. I used to frequentlt dream about getting it on with friens or friends wives. The next day I would call the lady and say; thank you. Eventually they made me say what the thank you was about. The response was usually; oh Harvey.

      Later on I found out many would talk about my dreams and tell each other.  They had a contest which one I would dream about more. Is that nott innocent and strange?

  24. andromida profile image61
    andromidaposted 7 years ago

    I remember only 4 smile

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    Deborah Sextonposted 7 years ago

    Has any body parts falling off anyone yet?

  26. iantoPF profile image80
    iantoPFposted 7 years ago

    My wife and I both got married late in life so when we were engaged we each tried to count how many lovers we'd had. I beat her by 5. smile
    We both agreed though, being the first isn't important. What's important is being the last.

  27. blondepoet profile image74
    blondepoetposted 7 years ago

    I am terribly sorry could not give you a figure. Do you have a calculator by any chance?

  28. waynet profile image79
    waynetposted 7 years ago

    Oh I've had millions all over the world when I used to be a spy for the government in world war 1, I was at it like a rabbit whilst bombs were dropping from the sky, so if you see lots of ginger people around the world that look like me, then it's nothing to do with me honest!

    1. blondepoet profile image74
      blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      And I was Wayne's partner, Admiral De Vella BP, no wonder I lost track smile

      1. waynet profile image79
        waynetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

        Noooo you've blown my cover. here blow my trumpet....!!
        http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_uE1n8xARdX4/SuyXO1WjOwI/AAAAAAAAaqg/Te7qzVcXEOc/s400/penis01.gif

        1. blondepoet profile image74
          blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

          I am flat out containing my own trumpet smile smile

          http://s1.hubimg.com/u/916464_f260.jpg

          1. waynet profile image79
            waynetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

            Ha look at that tree with the strange nose....wait a minute... that aint no nose!!!!!!!!

            It's a trumpet..... do do do do

            1. blondepoet profile image74
              blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

              I think it is thirsty and wilting......

              1. waynet profile image79
                waynetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                Quick get the Kleenex!

                1. blondepoet profile image74
                  blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                  Aghhhhhhhhhh get the crane!!!!!!!!!!!

                  1. waynet profile image79
                    waynetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

                    And king size sheet kleenex!

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    ralwusposted 7 years ago

    Hey, does it include sheep?

    1. blondepoet profile image74
      blondepoetposted 7 years agoin reply to this

      Baaaa sure does and chickens cluck cluck smile smile

  30. She-rah profile image78
    She-rahposted 7 years ago

    I think only one other gave a definitive answer. I will be the second- I've been with 22. From the age of 16 to 34. Considering most teenagers lose their virginity at 11 (statistically speaking in the US). I'm not embarrassed. I truly admit I was a bit niave and believed what men would say to me when I was younger. I've never had a 1 night stand but my husband would have been the first, lol. Wow, he Knocked my socks off when he walked into the room and hit the dance floor with the ladies. They would line up AND now I'm married to him! He's been with a few hundred some in the same night. Let's just say, he's experienced and I don't mind smile

  31. Jonathan Janco profile image69
    Jonathan Jancoposted 7 years ago

    Many many sex partners, very few "lovers"

  32. LeanMan profile image89
    LeanManposted 7 years ago

    Decided to do the count officially; started to carve notches on my bed post........

    Now I have no bed, but at least I have a nice pile of sawdust..

    No idea how many, lets just say my lucky pants worked after ny teens

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    ralwusposted 7 years ago

    It's not nice to count them after ten or twenty.

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    ThatGirlFrankieposted 7 years ago

    ummm 17?

 
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