The problem is this , as an example can another family member make you stop loving your mother or Father, ? just because they can cause injustice or problems for you .
Or just reverse this, can another child stop your parents from loving you. ?
Really you are the only one who has the power to stop anything , you are behind the driver seat of your heart and mind.
People will always do and say imperfect things because they are imperfect.
But should we take it out on the heavenly Father because of other humans imperfections. No! Not fair.
What if a boss on a Job got mad about another's work performance, then he decides to take deduction from your hard work by payroll.
He says Jim did not do well in his performance and I am doing paycuts
on employees checks.
Is this fair? No.
The point is loving the Heavenly Father has nothing to do with you fellow worshippers, each person is responsible for their own relationship.
As Jesus has said we learn to forgive and we keep focused on the target of our love and devotion to the Heavenly Father Jehovah.
No one should ever have that power over your love for him.